Darling, there’s an art to every entrance, isn’t there? And when it comes to greeting others, it’s all in the little details – like where you hold your handbag. Picture this: You’re at a chic gathering, the room is buzzing, and eyes are naturally drawn to you. Now, how do we keep things graceful while holding a handbag? That’s where my favourite tips come into play.

Let me take you through some of my secrets to keeping things smooth, stylish, and oh-so-elegant during those first moments of meeting someone.

 

Keep Your Right Hand Free, Sweetheart

Here’s a little trick every diva knows: your right hand is for shaking hands, not juggling bags. I always keep my handbag on my left side, whether it’s on my arm or held in my left hand. This simple switch gives you a free hand for that confident, warm handshake. And trust me, it shows others that you’re prepared and attentive – it’s those little details that make an impression.

Think about it, my dear – when you greet someone, you want them to feel like you’re present and fully engaged, not fumbling around with a bag. And holding your bag on the left keeps you looking poised and polished, no matter the setting.

 

Mastering the Flow of Conversation

You’d be surprised how holding your handbag the right way can work wonders in conversations! By keeping it on your left arm or hand, you’re setting a tone of openness and approachability. I’ve found that the smallest gestures – like extending a free hand with ease – make people feel valued. It’s like saying, “I’m here, ready to connect,” without uttering a word.

And here’s a little insider tip: if you’re someone who enjoys accessorising (as I do!), try to keep your handbag as simple as the scene calls for. You don’t want anything distracting in hand while you’re making an impression.

 

My Favourite Handbag Tip? Show a Bit of Grace

One of the things I’ve learned at countless events, darling, is that grace is everything. There’s something about moving smoothly from one person to the next that gives you an effortless allure. So, the next time you’re gliding into a party, take a moment to carry yourself like you’re on your own private runway. Hold that bag with care – in your left hand, of course – and let your right side be free for greetings, gestures, and charm.

This also shows others that you’re comfortable and in command. There’s nothing like the quiet power of a woman who knows how to hold her space, and a handbag in the left hand is the first step to achieving it.

 

A Little Handbag Trivia

Oh, and here’s a fun fact: in certain royal circles, carrying a bag in both hands can subtly signal that you’re not available for handshakes. It’s a technique royals sometimes use to gracefully sidestep introductions when needed. But for us, let’s just say it’s an option when a little extra distance is called for.

 

Let’s Keep It Elegant Together

So, my dear, next time you step into a crowded room, remember to keep your right hand free, carry that bag on your left side, and let your elegance shine through.  

Stay fabulous!