Handling Career Critiques with Grace

Darlings,

it’s your beloved Augustina here, ready to share a little heart-to-heart. You see, even in this modern age, I’ve encountered a few charming gentlemen who seem to struggle with the concept of a woman with a career. Shocking, I know! But it got me thinking, how can we handle such situations with grace, elegance, and just a touch of that old Hollywood flair?


Handling with Grace: A Classic Approach

Oh, I remember the first time I encountered this little dilemma. Picture this: a swanky soirée, all eyes on me—naturally. Suddenly, a gentleman, dressed to the nines but with ideas stuck in the 1950s, remarked, “A lady like you shouldn’t worry about work.”

Now, darlings, I could have made a scene (believe me, I’ve had my moments), but instead, I chose to respond with a smile, “Why, thank you, but my work is my passion, and it’s what makes me sparkle.” See, the key here is to not let their outdated notions ruffle your feathers. We must stand tall, not in opposition, but in affirmation of who we are.


Channelling Your Inner Diva

So, how does one manage these awkward encounters? First, remember that you are fabulous. Your career is a part of your identity, and no one should make you feel otherwise. When faced with such comments, respond with kindness but firm conviction. A simple, “My work is important to me, just as yours is to you,” can often work wonders.

But let’s not stop there, darling. Why not add a touch of humour? After all, laughter can diffuse even the most uncomfortable situations. You might say, with a twinkle in your eye, “Ah, but what would I do all day if I didn’t work? My shopping habits would get out of hand!” This way, you remind them of your independence and keep the conversation light and breezy.


The Power of Self-Confidence

Confidence, my dears, is everything. When you believe in yourself and your work, others will too. If someone questions your career, take a moment to remind yourself of all you’ve accomplished. Stand tall, shoulders back, and speak with the assurance that only comes from knowing your worth.

And let’s be honest—there’s something irresistibly alluring about a woman who knows her own power. It’s not just about the job, it’s about owning your space in the world. Never shy away from this, even if someone else’s ideas haven’t caught up with the times.


A Little Tip from Augustina

Here’s a little trick, darling: when you encounter someone who struggles with the idea of a career-driven woman, try this. Engage them in a conversation about their work. Ask questions, show interest. Then, when the moment is right, share a story about your own achievements. It’s a subtle way of showing that we are equals, each with our own contributions to make. And trust me, it works like a charm.

Until next time, darlings. Remember, you are the star of your own show, and no one can dim your light.

Stay fabulous!

Grape-leather, Bordeaux-colored ILNI handbag, the Augustina, features red gold-colored hardware and a lab-grown diamond as the eye of the Lazuli Kingfisher pendant.